Experience at Walmart brought a revelation.
At work I developed a headache. Skipped Yoga class. Got home. Remembered I had a Red Box movie that I didn't want to keep another night. Headed to Walgreens to return it and the machine was broken. Headache worsened. Forced to go to Walmart to return the movie, I spend $5.41 on groceries that wasn't planned.
As I was exiting the milk/juice area I see/hear a mother that was quite loudly telling her obese 7 year old that she would "not get the juice because there is too much sugar in it." I watched the child pick up the Minute Maid juice and raise and rest it on his head while asking again if he could get it. I thought to myself, "That's a bad call kid you are going to drop it." Less than 2 seconds later, in slow motion, I saw it starting to fall so I moved closer to catch it.....FAIL. The juice covered half of my leg. I stood waiting for the parent to grab the spewing jug of juice but she didn't! She was stunned, so I turned it over so it wouldn't spew any more. The mom then just started to yell, "I told you we were not getting the juice because there is too much sugar in it! We never get that juice!!!!"
After walking away smiling and partially embarrassed from walking around Walmart w/ my soaked leg it hit me....
She is bitter, angry and embarrassed that her child is fat and possibly even hates him a little because of it.
Ya know lady, maybe you should just get the juice and put back the poptarts. Her actions were uncalled for. Alright parents, before you go on a rant that your child is "chunky" and you don't know what to do, here a voice from experience:....1. Stop packing all kinds of crap for snacks. Not 1 of my YMCA children packs anything of value in their lunch bag. Heck some pack their own which means there are 4 bags of Little Debbie cakes all of which are consumed + a soda. 2. Get rid of the freaking game system. Wii might be an option but usually they are playing everything but. 3. Get rid of the cable. Man survived forever w/o it, so can you. If you have a show you like watch it on the internet. 4. Stop being lame and spend 2 weeks yourself trying to get into shape so you can play with your kid. Those 2 weeks are a beating but after that you will still have energy after work to workout/play.
I was basically born a fat kid. Here's why: Forced to eat all the leftovers by my grandmother not to mention she was an amazing cook so 1/2 the time I was down with eating it. Since I ate all that my stomach stretched and I started eating beer-bellied man portions around the age of 10. Digital tv came in. Rabid animals outside. Not an athletic body. Lots of homework. Divorce. Lived in the middle of nowhere. Laziness. Boredom.
Stop hating on your fat kid. You make the changes. DON'T SAY ANYTHING TO YOUR KID ABOUT THEIR WEIGHT! This was my family's huge error. It made me eat more and accept it. You make the changes and your kid will adapt and end up changing w/o noticing. You starting the habits will change theirs.
That's my rant from a former obese child's viewpoint.
Inspired by hating mother of an obese child.
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